6/3/2023 0 Comments Adult baby change![]() ![]() It’s the moment when people thank us for being so open and for making products that make them feel better about themselves. It’s not any one particular moment, it’s the one moment that happens all the time. What has been your proudest moment since opening Tykables? You be polite and you can disagree with them but in some cases… if they don’t actually want to have a real conversation and ask the questions, I don’t even bother trying to convince them because I don’t think I could. I hate to say, “maybe they’ll go away,” but in some cases, when someone else cares so much about what I do or the sex that I have, it’s like “do you really think you’re going to win this argument?” If somebody cares enough about what you do in your bedroom to complain about it when they’re not even involved, do you think that there’s a logical rationale behind that? You can tell them whatever you want - the common response would be, “we disagree.” I don’t know that you can ever convince some people otherwise. But from the another perspective, you just have to ignore it. So is this someone who actually might be an ABDL but doesn’t want to accept that? Being a gay man from the South, I’ve met a lot of gay men who are not OK with gay people. The first question I’d ask is “where is this coming from?” because people can be dealing with a lot of internal hate sometimes. Without any additional context, that could be answered in several different ways. What would you say to someone who says if you’re an ABDL, then you’re sick or deviant or that this is not sexually healthy? I could probably give you a thousand different answers and I still wouldn’t cover all of them. It’s also very personal for different people. It brings back some of the innocence from childhood rather than being a medical product or rather than being an overtly fetish product. And some people who are incontinent buy our products because they remove that stigma for them. It’s basically an accessory to the moment, whether it be the diapers or anything else that we have. The biggest thing as far as stress relief comes from the actual product themselves. It really is as simple as that for a lot of people. ![]() For those who aren’t autistic, it can also be a way for them to forget about their cares - to be a stress release. People who are autistic or more specifically have Asperger syndrome, often times have social anxiety, and products like our can offer a security blanket of sorts which help them deal with stress or anxiety. So, as far as these people go, there are two real segments in that crowd: There are people who are on the autism spectrum, and then those who are not but who still find it comforting. A lot of the things we offer are just that - they’re meant to be comforting. How can you expect someone else to love and accept you if you don’t even do it?įor people who are into it for non-sexual reasons, it’s more of an emotional response rather than a sexual stimulus. To paraphrase RuPaul, “If you can’t love yourself, how the fuck is somebody else going to love you?” You have to love who you are, you have to be happy with who you are as the first step in accepting yourself or finding a relationship with somebody else. So anytime we talk to anyone here we always try and be as open and friendly as possible. And if you feel that others don’t value you, you might not value yourself and that’s very detrimental and very hurtful to one’s self. ![]() And when you’re different, it makes it difficult. When people come here, sometimes we talk about that: what about it for them, do they get out of it? Everyone wants to fit in, everyone wants to be welcomed, everyone wants to feel loved - that’s something we all want. I get that people feel that way - I just don’t understand why. I find it strange that you can feel shame in something that makes you feel pleasure. Whether you look at it from a fetish aspect or not, a lot of people feel shamed by having sex that is not the traditional, missionary man and woman - or man and man or woman and woman, perhaps - style sex. ![]()
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